guaranteed money

When you have a up coming family, and your only means of money is being in any branch of the service STAY PUT. My child had the nerve to get out when he had a baby on the way , very stupid of him now they a struggling. They have no means of any medical care for this new child. What are our kids thinking of, there are no jobs out here . Who can talk some sense into them and tell them that when you have babies STAY PUT.